YOUR RESULT

This check-in looks at five parts of a strong relationship: respect, empathy, trust, keeping your own identity, and optimism.
You’re doing well! Your answers suggest that the important things in your relationship are working — you trust each other, respect each other and still feel good being together. That doesn’t mean everything is perfect, but you’re clearly doing quite a lot right.

The useful part now is noticing where you didn’t answer “Yes.” Those exceptions are often where small problems begin — and where a little attention now can prevent them becoming bigger ones later.

WHAT TO DO NEXT

Compare your answers with your partner and look for the places where you answered differently. Don’t try to decide who is right. Ask why you experienced the same relationship differently.
And give yourselves some credit. Strong relationships don’t stay strong by accident — keep doing what’s already working.